When a person’s pride is more important than love and connection they will be forever stuck. They’ll never evolve because their ego prevents them from processing any information that doesn’t match their idealized self-image. These people are blocked and often quite lonely. In order to connect and love we must be vulnerable.
I used to think it was my responsibility to pull these folks out of their wormholes. I’d understand and love their beautifully damages souls and try and to help them connect. But now I know that they don’t really want to be better. They want to be right. Recognizing that has been a form of great liberation for me.
Love isn’t picking sides; love is acceptance. If someone isn’t willing to practice self-acceptance than it’s best for me to just walk away.
#liberation 📸 @ericyipxl